“WHY DO WE”?(DAY 14); Why do we behave the OPPOSITE to how we expect others to BEHAVE?”
One of the major problems our CHILDREN have when they are developing is the fact that their parents say one thing and behave in some other way.
This is extremely confusing to a young mind and causes the child incredible damage as they try and come to terms with what advice is given and then watch the adviser behave in an opposite manner.
Then as parents we say things like; “I do not understand why my child is this way or that way and why does he not do what I ask”?
No wonder our CHILDREN become like we are.
No wonder they go into the outside WORLD and follow their EMOTIONS when they have OBSERVED their greatest teacher constantly behaving in an INSANE manner.
They (the CHILD) OBSERVE their PARENTS showing DISRESPECT towards each other and at the same time expect them as CHILDREN to show respect towards them.
They OBSERVE their PARENTS ARGUING and at the same time telling them as CHILDREN not NOT to argue with their brother or sister.
They LISTEN to their PARENTS telling them to be HAPPY and at the same OBSERVE their PARENTS radiate UNHAPPINESS.
They HEAR their PARENTS telling them to LOVE them and at the same OBSERVE these same PARENTS behaving towards each other in a UN-LOVING manner.
They are constantly watching their PARENTS changing from one STATE to another during their up-bringing.
Is it little wonder our CHILDREN are CONFUSED?
Is it not OBVIOUS that they are not as CONFIDENT about their LIVES as they should be?
As PARENTS we are NOT at fault because we KNOW NO OTHER WAY because we were taught in the same manner.
As PARENTS we cannot help our BEHAVIOUR due to the same TRAINING we are passing on to our CHILDREN.
As PARENTS we are just as HYPOCRITICAL as our own PARENTS.
As PARENTS we are ruled by our inner VIBRATIONS as much as our PARENTS were.
As PARENTS we are governed by the same VIBRATIONAL pulls that our ANCESTORS BELIEVED they were.
As PARENTS we are as CONFUSED as our PARENTS were.
That is why we have to CHANGE or the same INSANE CYCLE will be passed on to our own CHILDREN.
That is why we have to REALISE our INSANITY and admit to these INSANE VIBRATIONAL pulls that cause us to be the HYPOCRITES we are to our CHILDREN.
That is why we must CHANGE before we can EXPECT others to CHANGE.
It is not a case of making an EFFORT to hide our VIBRATIONS with another VIBRATION because by doing so we are only hiding ONE INSANITY with another INSANITY.
To CHANGE our BEHAVIOUR requires us ONLY to REALISE and ADMIT to ourselves that our BEHAVIOURS are not “who we are”.
We then need to EXPLAIN to our CHILDREN that they are also “NOT HOW THEY FEEL.”
Our CHILDREN will UNDERSTAND immediately BUT only if they feel the CHANGE in their PARENTS VIBRATIONS.
Those who UNDERSTAND will UNDERSTAND. It is as it IS.
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