A Recipe for Disaster?
PLEASE BE AWARE THAT THIS ARTICLE WILL GIVE A GREATER UNDERSTANDING FOR THOSE WHO ARE GOING THROUGH DIFFICULTIES IN RELATIONSHIPS OR FOR THOSE WHO WISH TO HAVE BETTER RELATIONSHIPS WHEN WE HAVE READ BOTH ARTICLE 500 AND ARTICLE 500+30. PS FOR THOSE READERS WHO HAVE NO DIFFICULTIES IN RELATIONSHIPS – ENJOY.
When we say a “Recipe for Disaster” we are talking about our behaviour as Human Beings here in the Physical World.
A Recipe is a mixture of different elements that make up an end product.
This applies to everything in the Physical World.
It also includes Human Development.
When we enter the Physical World we become an end product of millions of years of an evolutionary process passed from Generation to Generation.
This process is an amazing conglomeration of intricate Experiences and events that our Ancestors went through.
Our Physical body is an information centre that we cannot do without.
We are a product of this astonishing plan we call LIFE.
The information we inherited is absolutely necessary to function within the Physical domain.
If understood for what it is we can enjoy everything LIFE has to offer.
These pieces of information are continuously being passed to our nervous systems as Emotions.
If we BELIEVE THAT our EMOTIONS are bad in any way we CANNOT have a fullness of Joy.
Unfortunately our schools of learning and libraries are full of this nonsensical information.
We are taught in our Religions as well as in our Universities that we are what we feel and that we must either go with what we feel or suppress what we feel.
That is why taking DRUGS and ALCOHOL is rampant in every society within the Physical World.
DRUGS and ALCOHOL are an escape from LIFE.
DRUGS AND ALCOHOL are our way of changing what IS into something that does not exist.
Every time we try and escape from what IS it is a “RECIPE FOR DISASTER.”
When we see a behaviour within ourselves or others we can then understand that we can make a choice to either take part in that behavioural experience or just OBSERVE.
Every time we give our Emotions or anothers Emotions any kind of acceptance by allowing it to be “who we are” we are losing control to that behaviour.
Our publication in March 2009 explains vital information pertaining to what we attempting to convey today.
Here is the first Statement which would be wisdom indeed if we were to read it with our children and our partners.
PEACE and understanding will be the end result if we do so.
The first Statement is in BOLD TYPE below;
“Monday, March 02, 2009
Category – Relationships
VICTIM POWER – CULPRIT or CASUALTY?
What part do you play?
In the GLOSSARY of PSYCHEGNOSIS NEWS the definition of VICTIM POWER is explained;
“VICTIM POWER”. this is used by someone who wishes to control anyone or any situation by passing guilt etc.
We can now discuss what part we all have played.
Culprit, is a great word which describes the inflicter of the guilt.
He or she is a person who communicates by using past experiences like a laser beam.
He manipulates the future to cast fear on his victim.
He can be anyone ranging from a parent to a child.
In the case of the parent, they constantly remind the child that they should be grateful to them for the sacrifice they have had giving birth etc.
This can and does go on until either the child disappears from the parents life, or the parent dies.
It is a case that the parent cannot control, because the “illusion” is the controller.
A child learns early in its life to be a culprit.
It discovers that a doting or guilty parent will give them everything if they cry or complain.
This Carry’s on into teenage years where it can lead to downright abusiveness or even violence towards their bewildered parents.
The child knows no better and believes that they deserve everything they want.
Again it is impossible to please because the “illusion” is in control once more.end of first Statement.
Everyone who reads the above Statement has Experienced what has been written.
It is in prevalent in EVERY kind of RELATIONSHIP.
We are a product of our EMOTIONS.
We are not in control.
We can be – NOW.
We can stop this ETERNAL round of INSANE behaviour, this instant.
We can change the RECIPE and produce a different result, if we just realise that we are not “WHO WE THINK WE ARE”. It is as it IS.
More tomorrow on what we have been writing about today.
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