The title of this article may seem strange at first but as we investigate further we shall see why it’s very important to be SELFISH.
The “illusion” that we mistakenly take as who we are would seem, on the face of it, to be SELFISH. In the eyes of the world being SELFISH is a bad thing or at least a name that indicates a failing.
Well the “illusion” is SELFISH in only one way and that is as long as its given attention – it’s happy.
Whether it’s good attention or bad attention that is its only concern.
The “illusion” likes to deflect from being found out by getting to be liked as the helper or the victim.
Its SELFISHNESS is based on itself and strengthening its “illusionary” self. Its motive never considers anyone else unless it benefits its own self worth.
It can be on any side of the fence.
What is meant by that is, it can be a victim or the helper of the victim.
It can be the doer of the wrong or the one correcting the wrongdoer, it matters not one whit as long as it gains an identity.
It gains strength as it tells its story over and over again.
It blames others so it can get more strength.
It convinces others to run about after them by spreading fear and guilt.
It loves the attention and limelight in any way it can manipulate.
Thus we can see that the “illusion” prevails under those conditions.
As the philosophy of PSYCHEGNOSIS is understood this SELFISHNESS shall be seen as it is.
It’s important to be SELFISH so that we can become aware of who we are not.
This then allows reality to enter any given situation.
The word SELFISH shall now be given a completely new meaning as we discuss it in the light of who we are not.
It’s not possible to find this out, if we pander to who we think we are.
What is the solution?
Well it begins with a feeling or a vibration.
Everything we do carries with it a vibration.
We as humans used to use only vibration before we developed speech.
Thinking was used for memory purposes only.
As thinking became who we thought we were, vibration become less of a communicating process.
When we developed speech we became easy victims of our “illusion”.
We were convinced that logic and thinking were the answer.
This took us along a completely different path.
This path is the “illusionary” world that we bought into.
So to the question of being SELFISH is important for the following reasons.:
1) If we SELFISHLY avoid listening to our own story we cannot be led towards the “illusion”.
2) It allows us to be non judgemental.
That’s the difference between a good listener and one that is caught in their “illusion”.
3)We can only help others if we ourselves SELFISHLY remain aware that happiness or permanent peace comes from not getting caught up in our story of being superior to the one being helped.
This is very important as the one being helped does not hear the words but feels the vibration.
It’s a solution to the problem that exists whenever advice or help is given.
The law of PSYCHEGNOSIS makes it easy to make decisions that before would have caused pain such as guilt or not wanting to cause offense.
The decision to tell our children NO is no longer “one long guilt trip”.
We can tell them NO when it will be to the benefit of all and not for the strengthening of their “illusion”.
We NO longer have to bow to the bully.
We NO longer have to live up to others expectations.
We NO longer need to fear rejection.
We NO longer have to live according to Someone Else’s expectations.
We no longer need to be in debt, to live beyond our means.
We no longer need to put up with anyone who uses threatening language or even violence if they don’t get their way.
We do not have to be concerned about losing all that we once thought made up who we were.
All of the afore mentioned situations will be handled incredibly easily when we take away the “illusion” from the scene.
MORE LATER….
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