Relationships – Are we a TRUE Friend or are we not?
We continue our investigation into Relationships with a look at what is a TRUE Friend and how we can be a TRUE Friend.
To have one True Friend in our lives is indeed a great thing to have.
More importantly than having a Friend is to become a Friend to ALL of our fellow Human Beings.
The Question is not can we have Friends, the Question is why do we not have Friends?
The reason we lose Friends is explained in one of our earlier articles written in March 2009 titled; Friends – why do we not have more? it is detailed why we have we do not have the Friends we should have in our lives.
Everything that is written in this newspaper relates to who we are not and the issue of why we do not have more True Friends is no different.
Who we are not is responsible for not having more Friends.
Who we are not is the cause of us losing the Friends we once had.
Who we are not is the reason we sabotage our Friendships.
Below in BOLD TYPE is the article as it was published in March 2009 and we ask that as we read it we do so with an open mind and heart and we shall recieve Peace – instantly.“Friends – why do we not have more?
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Category – Relationships
Friends – why do we not have more?
We are gregarious by nature.
When we first meet people we put over how friendly we are.
When we are alone we wish we had that special friend we can share our dreams and aspirations with.
We remember the times when we were young and at school when we had that comradeship.
So why do we self sabotage our relationship with friends?
Self sabotage is the “illusions” way of staying alive.
That may seem strange when we first read it but here is the reason why.
The Ego is excited to meet others and the “illusion” likes the idea also because it gives it a chance to strengthen and show what a great “illusion” they are.
Usually we are the centre of attraction when we meet new friends.
We are treated with undivided attention.
We also give the same in return.
We communicate with each other and treat every word with acceptance.
We listen to each others story and are genuinely interested.
This carries on till eventually we stop doing the things that created the friendship.
The “illusion” demands more as usual.
We begin to introduce demands.
We start to domineer the communication.
We become moody when we are not given the attention we think we deserve.
We know we are doing it but we keep right on until the friend we once had decides they have had enough, or we are the ones that decide to end the friendship for exactly the same reason.
The self sabotaging is complete.
The easy thing to do is realise that we are not who we think we are, so when the attention seeking acts begin, we simply smile.
The “illusion” will be seen for what it IS.
We are then in a position to recognise it in our new friend also.
When we see the signs of attention seeking, we shall not judge them, because we will realise that they are not in control.
They are behaving as we once did – caught in the trap of the “illusion”.
We shall explain to them what we still like them by not reacting to their insanity.
We shall not tell them they are insane – (that would not be a good idea:editor).
We simply will give them an understanding smile and smile at our own emotions that may wish to retaliate.
We shall have many lifelong friends.
Life is good.
Understanding PSYCHEGNOSIS is realising who we are not and helping others to appreciate this great Universal Law.
Peace shall be the result.instantly.
No ifs no buts. It shall be so.
Share this article with all the people you know.”end of article.
The Law of PSYCHEGNOSIS is not difficult to comprehend and does not need a College degree to do so.
The Law of PSYCHEGNOSIS is not about having to be a special person for it to be an instant part of our lives.
The Law of PSYCHEGNOSIS is the same as the air we breathe – FREE to everyone no matter who they are.
The Law of PSYCHEGNOSIS does not effect what Relgious beliefs we have.
The Law of PSYCHEGNOSIS does not take away our Traditions.
The Law of PSYCHEGNOSIS has no exclusion due to ones background or where in the world they were born.
The Law of PSYCHEGNOSIS needs no effort so therefore is not understood by those who are possessed by their Thinking Mind.
When we realise that we are not who we think we are we become Free from trying to make Friends or trying to be a Friend.
We stop JUDGING ourselves and our fellow Human beings.
We understand that they are not who they think they are as we understand we are not who we think we are.
This realisation is the key to being a True Friend. It is as it IS.
Tomorrow we shall break down into Statements our March 2009 publication. We ask that to fully comprehend what we are writing that we print of today’s issue and review it before reading tomorrows information. Be a REAL FRIEND NOW by sharing it with those we LOVE. comments to editorial@psychegnosis.com